What feedback should I give?

[ozballer23]

Dont take this the wrong way but why didnt you contact him first and try to remedy this without outing him on the boards?

so he gets away with breaking the site rules? how would he "remedy" it?

 

[anakinleo]

Why don't you take a photo of what was sent to you and let the mods be the judge of it. Fair call everybody?

 

[ozballer23]

Why don't you take a photo of what was sent to you and let the mods be the judge of it. Fair call everybody?

mods have made their call, it's in the site rules and in the flashing banner!

 

[drob50]

At the end of the day.... feedback is meant to be your 'summary' of your experience. It should not be a matter of 'perfect or not' but a simple case of 'was I satisfied with the transaction'?

As soon as you posted this thread, it shows that you weren't satisfied or else you wouldn't have needed to ask anyone else. I just think that you have a soft side that is worried about leaving a mark on someone else!

Two cents delivered!

 

[ooneil]

so he gets away with breaking the site rules? how would he "remedy" it?

What - people have no right to explain themselves? At least contact a mod first and get them involved before running on the boards outing people.

 

[sgt_pepper]

Dont take this the wrong way but why didnt you contact him first and try to remedy this without outing him on the boards?

well, i havent outed anyone. his name hasnt been mentioned. plus, im not looking for the situation to be remedied? how could it be? he cant re-send me the cards the proper way?!
so contacting him couldnt have fixed the situation. i knew if i did send him a message, id be telling him all the things he done wrong, and he couldve easily taken that the wrong way and it would have spiralled downward from there.

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What - people have no right to explain themselves? At least contact a mod first and get them involved before running on the boards outing people.

again. no ones been outed?!

 

[ozballer23]

What - people have no right to explain themselves? At least contact a mod first and get them involved before running on the boards outing people.

ok, how do you come up with an explanation for not using an envelope to send cards? It's common sense let alone site rules. There is no reason to break the rules. If you don't have the proper stuff to send the cards, delay sending it out, let the other party know and don't send it till you get the right stuff.

There is no excuses period. A neg let's other people know how this person deals on the site.

 

[sgt_pepper]

At the end of the day.... feedback is meant to be your 'summary' of your experience. It should not be a matter of 'perfect or not' but a simple case of 'was I satisfied with the transaction'?

As soon as you posted this thread, it shows that you weren't satisfied or else you wouldn't have needed to ask anyone else. I just think that you have a soft side that is worried about leaving a mark on someone else!

Two cents delivered!

this is true.

 

[ozballer23]

well, i havent outed anyone. His name hasnt been mentioned. plus, im not looking for the situation to be remedied? How could it be? He cant re-send me the cards the proper way?!
so contacting him couldnt have fixed the situation. I knew if i did send him a message, id be telling him all the things he done wrong, and he couldve easily taken that the wrong way and it would have spiralled downward from there.

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again. No ones been outed?!

bingo!!!!!

 

[ooneil]

Its pretty easy to work out from the sales threads who it was. Perhaps you should follow the rules by marking the saled thread as having a problem and contact the mods. Once again dont take it personal.

 

[anakinleo]

mods have made their call, it's in the site rules and in the flashing banner!

What I meant was that the MODS are the ones that give the negative feedback and not sgt pepper. Makes a difference where that negative feedback came from.

 

[ozballer23]

What I meant was that the MODS are the ones that give the negative feedback and not sgt pepper. Makes a difference where that negative feedback came from.

No that's where your wrong, sgt_pepper‎ gives the neg fb... not sure where you got that from?!

 

[sgt_pepper]

Its pretty easy to work out from the sales threads who it was. Perhaps you should follow the rules by marking the saled thread as having a problem and contact the mods. Once again dont take it personal.

but the sale doesnt have a problem? he got his money, i got my cards. its completed. this was just to see what feedback to leave. ive never had to leave neg FB before, so wanted to make sure. he wouldve been outed already if it had been anyone else because it seems they wouldve left him a neg straight up. without asking anyone else.
dont really understand how contacting him and hearing his side of the story could change the facts of what happened?
i dont take anything you say personal.

 

[anakinleo]

No that's where your wrong, sgt_pepper‎ gives the neg fb... not sure where you got that from?!

Don't agree entirely. sgt_pepper would have his chance to provide negative feedback. But he has a choice not to. Feedback is voluntary regardless whether positive or negative.

That is where the MODS step in because they are the ones that set the rules.

 

[ozballer23]

Don't agree entirely. sgt_pepper would have his chance to provide negative feedback. But he has a choice not to. Feedback is voluntary regardless whether positive or negative.

That is where the MODS step in because they are the ones that set the rules.

That's precisely where we are at currently, he is making up his mind about if he should or shouldn't! Not sure where you think he's at mate. Not having a go at you personally champ!

 

[aussiemjfreak]

What - people have no right to explain themselves? At least contact a mod first and get them involved before running on the boards outing people.

When they break site rules blatantly, then no they don't deserve a chance to explain themselves.... It's not like it's a hidden rule, it's plastered ALL OVER the site.....

 

[anakinleo]

That's precisely where we are at currently, he is making up his mind about if he should or shouldn't! Not sure where you think he's at mate. Not having a go at you personally champ!

I really think that this a healthy debate.

I was sort of thinking ahead and not of current situation. What if sgt_pepper elects not to leave a negative feedback. Does the MODS have the power then to enforce the rules set for us? if they cannot enforce that rule, anyone of us could be the next victim of a crappy delivery because we do not know that he has done that before. Does anybody know that question? Does the MODS have the power then to enforce the rules set for us?

 

[ozballer23]

I'm sure they do but doubt they would overwrite your choice...

I really think that this a healthy debate.

I was sort of thinking ahead and not of current situation. What if sgt_pepper elects not to leave a negative feedback. Does the MODS have the power then to enforce the rules set for us? if they cannot enforce that rule, anyone of us could be the next victim of a crappy delivery because we do not know that he has done that before. Does anybody know that question? Does the MODS have the power then to enforce the rules set for us?

 

[ooneil]

When they break site rules blatantly, then no they don't deserve a chance to explain themselves.... It's not like it's a hidden rule, it's plastered ALL OVER the site.....

We are here to discuss cards not act like little *****es outing each other every time something goes wrong. Save an outing for when its worth it - like when bolly got ripped off 4 grand.

Issues like these can easily be dealt with by reporting it to the mods as per the site rules.

 

[anakinleo]

I'm sure they do but doubt they would overwrite your choice...

That is what I am afraid most, they are leaving to the members of the community to decide which may not be reflective of the rules.