Since 1982 (when I was six) I always supported RL. I lived in Wagga Wagga and I remember the 1983 sticker book had a Brian 'Chika' Moore sticker (he was a bald former player who was the then coach).
A lot of people started going for Canberra. My dad moved a lot, overseas with the govt so between 1984-1987 I didn't really see any games but my pop would buy me the Scanlens sticker books and bubblegum cards (and he was a mad Saints fan [as were all my mum's family]). Then in 1987, we had a holiday back in Australia, and we were going to move to Europe and mum said I had to pick a scarf because it was cold. K-Mart had all the RL supporters gear, so I picked a Souths beanie and scarf because I liked the colours. My grandfather was really supportive of it as it gave me a team and I had no idea of the history or rivalries. He'd buy me all the books about RL and the number 1908 and the number 20 always seemed to define me. After that, they became my team. I started boarding school in 1989 when Souths last topped the table, so it was good for me, but I was at a private school and RL was pooh-poohed. But I bought the newspaper, bubblegum cards and anything related to Souths. Little did I know that from 1990 until 1999 it would be some of the leanest years in Souths' history. Still...I went to 4-6 games a year, watched Friday Night Footy (the old 8.30 delayed kick off) and loved the bunnies and it didn't bother me if they came first or last. I loved footy, so I'd go to other games, watch them all, loved SOO and loved the Bears, Raiders, Manly and Broncos even when they thrashed Souths. Then expansion came and Super League arrived in 1995 (a year out of high school). I was staunchly ARL. I detested SL with every fibre of my being. I still have trouble reconciling the war and the family and friends who lost their team in mergers or drifted away from the game. When Souths got punted in 1999, I remember going to Para stadium for the last game and some Para fans telling me to "get fked, you're dead". I actually tried to initiate a rally at Fox Studios in late 1999 (I was 23, young and dumb and naive) and even got ads up and sent letters to the papers to cover it, until Andrew Denton personally called me and said not to proceed as it would damage the court case and much more was being done. During 2000 and 2001 I did some petitions, went to the rallies and charity games, but generally avoided NRL. I met my future wife in June 2000, and I just didn't talk about footy. I said I have been a Souths fan but that was about it. Her brother was an ex-Dogs lower grader and the family loved footy (and my future father-in-law was an old Newtown fan...talk about serendipity). When Souths got back in to the comp in mid-2001, it was the most wonderful thing. I was still bitter though. I saw the first game back against Easts and we got smashed. Then I went to London for a year so missed all of 2002 and early 2003 seasons. Once I got back, my newsagents had footy cards. The first pack I bought had an Asotasi sig card. I said to my wife "who the f*** is Roy Asotasi?" and just chucked it in a penny sleeve and put it in the back of the binder. Did the same thing with some dude called Billy Slater. I had NFI. I got back in to cards big time though. I renewed my memberships, went to every game home and away in Sydney and in NSW because I promised myself I'd never, ever take the club for granted again. To this day, I still go to all the games that I can. Between 2002-2006 it was dire. Then Russell Crowe took over. I was at the vote. When 'yes' won it was amazing. I don't care what anyone says, Crowe saved Souths from oblivion. It wasn't easy but in 2007 we made the finals, the first time since 1989. Roy Asotasi signed and I will always credit that guy for legitimising my club in the modern era and slowly, we signed some more talent, culminating in Sam Burgess and Greg Inglis arriving. With the young guns coming up, in 2012 Souths made the finals and we were a busted hammy away from a GF appearance. In 2013, it felt like 'our' year but Manly got us and I think the players, club and fans got ahead of themselves. First time I never watched a GF was in 2013 - I felt so, so gutted. 2014, well, it's history now. But it was magic. For so many years, the number 20 identified me. At times, I still pinch myself to think I witnessed Grand Final Day amongst a sea of red and green to win 21. I still chuckle thinking 21 is the new 20. That we beat Manly, Easts and Canterbury to win our comp made it even better. No longer would I hear 'oh, you haven't won a grand final in colour tv...40+ years since your last win...blah blah blah'. It was MY grand final win and all those old folks who'd seen the last batch in 1967-71 and always said 'oh well, you've never seen Souths win a comp like me'...we all had something in common, and it was wonderful. The years of heavy defeats and Super League was all but forgotten and the win cathartic. I'm happier now too...LOL. Now I have my kids as die hard fans and members, my wife and her dad as a member too. And I still never take my team for granted. In fact, I say to any fan, not having your footy team for a winter would make you appreciate them even more. So even if you aren't a Souths supporter, get right behind a team, any team and go to the games. The ups and downs are magic. The fans are great. The rivalries fun. And best of all, I still collect mountains of coloured cardboard and trade with heaps of cool people here.