thanks guys, it looks as though she wasnt actually killed in the accident (we were getting sketchy information at home) , but it appears as though she had a heart attack or stroke while driving and died before the crash....witnesses say she was slumped over thje steering wheel....so at least she went quickly...
I will be heading home today, as the funeral isnt till Monday and i have to be back at work on saturday, and Tara and her mum think i will just get in the way..:loL: