Hope all works out Nick - I was out of work for 3 months mid-last year right when my wife had our first baby, and while I'm working full-time I'm still not doing my ideal job (and i'm 34!)...so you're not the only one out there who hasn't found their calling in life mate.
Just find something to pay the bills in the short term....you never know where even the most menial job might take you. People know people, so keep your eyes and ears open. Good luck :v: