Probably not my position to comment on this but thought what the heck..
I Don't understand the full story here, and I think it's not my place to do so, but I can see AJ's point in being asked or commented on because he bid on another collector's watched/bidded item(s).
As far as I understand it, Ebay (and any other Auction Houses, etc) are free for one and all to bid on.
Now I can understand some anguish that Hendra might be induring in that something he wishes to purchase is being bidded on by another collector here, and that if he really wants it, it's going to cost a little more.
My only problem with this tho, is that if AJ wasnt a member on here, would the original messages have been sent, and this whole argument/heated discussion have started???
There are no rules that fellow members don't bid on stuff other members are, but there is a level of respect that most of us have for one another, BUT... in the same aspect, there's ALWAYS going to be a situation where we will have multiple members going after the same product.
It's a fact in life that you can't always have what you want.....