Am I being too critical???

[A1CardsandGaming]

The point I was referring to was as I stated I myself have been guilty of offering low prices due to lack of funds and was rudely dealt with but as I knew it was a ridiculous offer I did not take offense but now I have come into the big fat folding stuff and am looking to buy some higher priced cards I will be a bit choosy whom I choose to deal with. would also like to know where that thread can be found

I know what you mean because I have been in similar position. in the end, even someone who I don't really want to deal with has something I have been chasing, I will still do a deal with them.

 

[Wockrog]

I know what you mean because I have been in similar position. in the end, even someone who I don't really want to deal with has something I have been chasing, I will still do a deal with them.

actually your earlier comment raises a good point quote: "As for people who ask me about a card I have just purchased or traded, then I will ignore it because if it was for sale or trade then it would be listed up" end quote my argument would be it may have been in a packaged deal where he bought it to sell for a profit or trade it on for something else he is after as this is what the card I was referring to seemed to be. so I asked the question but alas no answer totally ignored. I know we don't live in aperfect world but as lomg as I play my part I know we still have hope

 

[aussiemjfreak]

This site is a lot better then many, many others out there, espically with communication between members! I do agree its frustrating as hell, but thats life, it happens a hell of a lot less here then other sites including ebay!

 

[Jaames]

I have been known to forget to reply to a PM here and there. But when you have so many deals happening at once on here and ebay and other forums plus working 50 hours a week its easy to miss 1 or 2 PM's. I never do it to be rude its just a honest mistake.

 

[crg0084]

The important factor to all this simply is; communication is not hard to do effectively. I have not had a problem in any of my dealings, perhaps I over communicate.. lol. But, if i am the buyer I always advise of a payment date. And if I am a seller I always ask for the payment date. Things can happen to change these, but one quick message makes it not even a problem. Just communicate and you and your buyers/sellers will be happy and eager to do further trades. I have received ridiculous offers in the past, but still reply even if it's with " haha, are you kidding?!"

lol I never heard back from you about the Fitch auto. No hard feelings...

Any way I think as others have mentioned it is a HOBBY and in this current economy there are prob not a lot of people with money to burn. Common courtesy does not go astray though there are a number of people on here that don't reply unless they feel like it. I have been guilty in not replying before but usually only stupid offers or people who constantly waste my time.
I think its just a reflection on today's society in general no one gives a f#@k about anyone else except them selves.
Buyers want to buy low sellers want to sell high. I found ive been going back to ebay as its to hard to make deals with alot of members lately and i have been selling as cheap as i possibly can as i have personal reasons for selling a lot of my collection.
What is amusing to me just yesterday i had a member on here ive tried dealing with a hand full of times in the past months usually starts off ok then contact just stops. I sent them a message to say how frustrating it was to deal with them. The reply i got was i asked you about cards ages ago and never got a reply so i wanted you to see what its like for someone to waste your time. Now i didn't realize someone could be so petty and childish. If i missed a email it was by mistake and there was no follow up. Gee if your offended by that i have a outbox full of sent messages people don't respond to. Even people who have made a wantlist you just think to your self... well f#@k u next time you want cards i have.

There have been threads like this before and i guess there is no point whinging its just the nature of the beast.

 

[Jay Blank]

lol I never heard back from you about the Fitch auto. No hard feelings...

Any way I think as others have mentioned it is a HOBBY and in this current economy there are prob not a lot of people with money to burn. Common courtesy does not go astray though there are a number of people on here that don't reply unless they feel like it. I have been guilty in not replying before but usually only stupid offers or people who constantly waste my time.
I think its just a reflection on today's society in general no one gives a f#@k about anyone else except them selves.
Buyers want to buy low sellers want to sell high. I found ive been going back to ebay as its to hard to make deals with alot of members lately and i have been selling as cheap as i possibly can as i have personal reasons for selling a lot of my collection.
What is amusing to me just yesterday i had a member on here ive tried dealing with a hand full of times in the past months usually starts off ok then contact just stops. I sent them a message to say how frustrating it was to deal with them. The reply i got was i asked you about cards ages ago and never got a reply so i wanted you to see what its like for someone to waste your time. Now i didn't realize someone could be so petty and childish. If i missed a email it was by mistake and there was no follow up. Gee if your offended by that i have a outbox full of sent messages people don't respond to. Even people who have made a wantlist you just think to your self... well f#@k u next time you want cards i have.

There have been threads like this before and i guess there is no point whinging its just the nature of the beast.

"Ok mate How much for the Fitch Auto? "

this is the pm i sent 2 days ago

oh wow, just searched back through my messages and found your reply! I apologise, this just shows how easy it is to miss a message. I had 5-6 pm's when I logged in and somehow missed yours. PM sent!

 

[crg0084]

lol il pm u buddy im not in the least bit worried

 

[Wockrog]

Porps if your reading this thread I am still awaiting a reply to the PM I sent

 

[33WING]

I have been known to forget to reply to a PM here and there. But when you have so many deals happening at once on here and ebay and other forums plus working 50 hours a week its easy to miss 1 or 2 PM's. I never do it to be rude its just a honest mistake.

My situation is exactly the same, some people don't understand this.

 

[Wockrog]

My situation is exactly the same, some people don't understand this.

don't take this the wrong way but if time is a problem when you start your thread add to it "I'm a Busy man" I'll get back to you when I can

 

[crg0084]

lol captain america i couldn't pm him his inbox was full so put a comment in thread never heard back so i just moved on...

 

[TheCardMan]

Tis annoying when you have repetitive PMs sent but people refuse to respond... despite them being active on the forums during this time.

 

[A_Iverson_I]

There have been many threads like this before & I totally agree with you..... especially annoys me when I send multiple PM's & people still ignore you. Show some courtesy you mugs...