One of my first International purchases, the seller simply didnt post.
Said they couldnt find an address.
There was:
1 - On My Ebay payment notification
2 - Back of envelope with MO in it
3 - Back of MO
His response:
He wasnt going to go looking for it here, and there, when I could have emailed it.....
So I negged him, and he kept my money ($15) and I got a positive.
I've also had another take about 20 days.
I have more of a beef with Aussie Post when someone sends me something with the correct address, it's then turned away, saying no such addy..... WTF....