Says something about me as a person???Really??? I was not outing anyone. As for trying to get them banned, I wouldn't bother. There's more chance of that happening due to someone posting their collection on line. That's petty. And I'm pretty disappointed that you'd think I'd do that. I simply stated I felt let down. Considering the original list and who was on it. And I'm very surprised.My opinion, not that it matters is this. If I got a set. And wanted to break it. I'd sell them to people I liked or had some sort of friendship with.
This means people would miss out. There can only be 16 people per set satisfied. Teams like panthers you'd have a much better chance getting one. Teams like Sharks, Dragons, Eels are high demand. And if down to me. I wouldn't have trouble picking who I sold them to. For a few reasons.
1. I've traded with alot of people.
2. I've been burnt by even more people.
3. I have a GREAT relationship with ALOT of HIGH END collectors.
4. I've helped more people than have EVER helped me.
5. My memory is very very very long.
Do I have a cowboys set? Yes I do. I attribute that to the person who sold me mine, has the same 5 reasons as me. If someone else had them, I may not have made the cowboys shortlist. I am therefore thankful for the relationship I have built with him.
Outting the person who sold them, or getting them banned from buying them in the future - just because you didn't get your team, says more about you as a person and a collector than it does about the person who sold them. In fact, you don't only burn their bridge - you burn many many others.
Paul, just a quick 1, Esp, whatever they want to call themselves these days, do not have any say in the matter unless they remain in their posession, once they have been paid for them, that is it, no say in the matter what so ever.Whats done is done, its time to move on I think.
To me it doesn't matter it doesn't make my collection less complete as they were never supposed to be broken up. The person who bought set #2/5 has just burnt whatever hope that they would of had of ever getting a set like this again unless ESP/TLA change the proviso of buying a set and not splitting.
I was just going off the advice that was provided when the set was initially floated as a propositionPaul, just a quick 1, Esp, whatever they want to call themselves these days, do not have any say in the matter unless they remain in their posession, once they have been paid for them, that is it, no say in the matter what so ever.
If they want to try and enforce something, let them try, if they want to try and blackmail dealers that have them for sale on their behalf, well that is just plain restriction of trade and sale.
Certain dealers have been told by esp in the past they are to sell their products at certain prices, like crap that has happened, look at daytraderamera, i do not see him going off there price guides.
esp have only themselves to blame for this situation, by flooding the market with as much product (greed) as they can, they have driven collectors to be team set collectors.
Now they can eat their cake and shut the F up.
Paul, I am not having any say on your comments at all, I am putting it out there, so everyone knows what is what, we are all missing out on something along the lines, we can't have it all, I know a few people out there that have 36 cards and are making it hard to get, so I am resigned to not getting them, it is not going to stop me from helping others where I can.I was just going off the advice that was provided when the set was initially floated as a proposition
My collection doesn't feel less complete without these cards. I'm perfectly happy with my parra pc the way it is and master sets don't really interest me
Dave, I suppose everyone that has a piece does not want to reveal there contacts for whatever reason, if they wish it to be known they will.Why all the Cloak and dagger over this and why is it such a secret who it was that split them up.
Whats done is done, its time to move on I think.
To me it doesn't matter it doesn't make my collection less complete as they were never supposed to be broken up. The person who bought set #2/5 has just burnt whatever hope that they would of had of ever getting a set like this again unless ESP/TLA change the proviso of buying a set and not splitting.
Mirren, I took your post as a hit to me. By asking you yesterday I was by no means trying to make you feel bad and I'm sorry if it did.Duane, my comments weren't directed at you. They were directed at the continued comments on this post. Are you trying to get someone outted? Are you trying to get someone banned? If not, the comment wasn't for you. If so, then it was for you too.
When you messaged me yesterday. You made me feel bad. Because I got a set? Because I didn't tell you, I got a set? If you got a set, would you have told me? I doubt it and if you did - it would be only because you know I'm a cowboys collector. You are one of around 15 die hard dragons collectors I know and I could name the children of six of them.
I'm somewhat disheartened by the reactions of people here in regards to this whole situation.
Mirren, I took your post as a hit to me. By asking you yesterday I was by no means trying to make you feel bad and I'm sorry if it did.
As for if I got one, I would have went back to the list and done what I could to get those people there sets. Seems the honourable thing to do in me eyes. I know not everyone operates the same way and that is life.
My comments also weren't directed at @batboy. Seems to be a different set (1 of three).
I understand that we all can't get what we want and that's fine. But when we all try and get something together and it falls through then another opportunity comes up...... I go back to my values. And if it meant that someone I was closer to missed out, then unfortunately that's life
A good thing for me though, is I've definately learned a valuable lesson throughout this.
I may live by a set of values but not everyone does, as unfortunate as that is. This whole episode has definately proved a lot though. You may be disheartened by comments but I can guarantee I'm more disheartened by some actions
Mark, yes I was referring to the list that you were critisced for. And from memory I also had a barrage of messages over.Are you referring to the list I got heavily criticised for because some people who expressed an interest originally didn't make it?
When that list was compiled there was no chance of me getting a set. It was over at that point. Another opportunity didn't come until months later, at which point I had to make some fast decisions. Those decisions were made in alignment with what Mirren mentioned before but with a focus on those who had helped me the most over the years. In some cases I found it extremely difficult to decide where a team set went, in other cases it was quite simple. I knew that some people would be upset with the decision but what can I do with only 1 set per team. I wasn't going to let an opportunity slip by for fear of upsetting someone.
What I find completely unfair is that you have contacted half of the people on this website pressing them for information on who split the set. That has put some in a very awkward position and I apologise to those people that were affected. You know very well who broke the set up but you haven't asked me anything and seem more intent on a public execution. That ends now. You want answers then PM me and ask and leave everyone else out of it.
Duane, you know that I go out of my way to help people in this hobby as well as anyone else. I find it interesting that all of a sudden I am being targeted as the bad guy just because you missed out on one thing you were chasing. If I had given you the set then I'd probably be having the same conversation with someone else. No matter what decision I made, someone was going to miss out. I was going to cop it no matter what but I accepted that when I did it.
I understand you are disappointed at missing out, but you won't be alone there. It doesn't mean that I won't continue to support you or anyone else who missed out. It doesn't mean I place less importance on helping you or anyone else. It just means that on this occasion I went a different direction for my own reasons.
If I end up with a set this year, I'm happy to let you make the decision (publicly) on where each team should be allocated. Will save me a lot of grief......
Well said,Duane, my comments weren't directed at you. They were directed at the continued comments on this post. Are you trying to get someone outted? Are you trying to get someone banned? If not, the comment wasn't for you. If so, then it was for you too.
When you messaged me yesterday. You made me feel bad. Because I got a set? Because I didn't tell you, I got a set? If you got a set, would you have told me? I doubt it and if you did - it would be only because you know I'm a cowboys collector. You are one of around 15 die hard dragons collectors I know and I could name the children of six of them.
I'm somewhat disheartened by the reactions of people here in regards to this whole situation.
Mark, yes I was referring to the list that you were critisced for. And from memory I also had a barrage of messages over.
Your decision on who team sets went to was totally up to you. As I have stated, not the way I or some others would have done it but ultimately your decision. And you're right, either way people would have been disappointed, hence why I would have went the other way ( that being said, totally your call).
I know how much you do for people in the hobby, and I have never stated otherwise.
Interestingly enough, I never started put to find out who split the set to be 'more intent on public execution'. More to find out if there was a team set still available. As for 'pressing people' for information..... a simple question was asked, that's it!!! If people take a simple question as 'pressing', they've obviously got something on their mind or another agenda. (My opinion only). Maybe people need to look at some of there own dealings and way they 'press' before casting judgement.
I actually only found out this afternoon that you broke a set (believe it or not, I'm not too fussed) at 1500. I had no idea about you or batboy. Secret kept well which is great. And to be totally honest, I messaged you yesterday to ask about sets pretty much the same way I asked others. Your reply in no way made me think that you ever had a set, hence why I was so surprised to find out this afternoon ( hence my first post this afternoon). Whilst I know how much you do for the hobby and I as many others do, appreciate it (I have been on the receiving end of your help before), I found this as dishonest. Pretty good opportunity to be up front.
As for, 'this ends now', I never harassed anyone and can't see why it is so hard to get a straight answer.
The whole thing comes down to, I'm not so much dissappointed in missing out, but as I've said before, thought it may have been done from the list ( and again, totally your choice).
I'm not going to apologise to people for asking, as I've said, I was only trying to find out if there was a team left.
For team sets in the future, mate do as you feel fit. I don't need a say in it, I've tried to help out before so I'm not really interested. I'll stick to making decisions elsewhere.
I hope this doesn't sour relationships too much around the hobby. If it has, I was only trying to get an answer and anyone is entitled to that.
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